The World Through My Eyes

The World Through My Eyes: A collection of essays, reflections and thoughts about men, sex, love, relationships, politics, friendships, nudism, current events, social concerns, humanitarian issues, religion and all those wonderful experiences that constitute life as seen and felt by me: a thirty-something Deaf Gay man of mixed racial heritage (half-black, half-white) living in the Virginia Beach area of the United States. A scrapbook of my life. I've been a confirmed Gay nudist for the past 20 years (since puberty). Sometimes, we just need to step back and chill and try not to be so serious and tense. Life is short, stand up and get into it!

Saturday, November 27, 2010

Thanksgiving Weekend

It's the weekend after the Thanksgiving holiday. The feast is over and the family and friends can now relax and be themselves. Free from the pressure of partaking of the perfect meal in the ideal setting. Now's the time that we can revert to just being ourselves and enjoying exactly who we are. For me, this is the best part of any family gathering. The chill time before we all depart from company. No stress to impress and no pretense. A time for us all to just have fun being what we are: a motley assortment of individuals who just happen to share a common ancestor somewhere in our genealogy.

As a gay nudist, I'm lucky to have several members of my extended family who share these traits with me. They are my twin cousins. They're both older but that doesn't stop us from having a great time together, even when we're in the minority around the rest of our family. We always manage to enjoy ourselves no matter what the situation. Of course, we know that there are relatives who discuss us behind our backs. Being nudists and gay isn't the most popular attribute within our family. but together, we show all our kin that we aren't bothered with their pettiness and most of the time, we even manage to make them all smile and laugh at least once.

We've also devised a way to make our holidays with family just a little more bearable. Since the three of us all have a partner/boyfriend/significant other in our individual lives, we now get a hotel suite for the duration of our celebration of the holiday. this way, we all are able to retreat at the end of the day, truly relax and hang out together. Literally. The minute we enter the suite, we strip off the burdens of being clothed and really kick back. This is how we retain the strength to survive another day with loved ones.

I truly love all my family. I love them even more now that I have the brief chance to escape from all this madness and rediscover my anchor and myself so that I'm able to face them all again.

Friday, November 19, 2010

Do Ask, Do Tell

I've been told several times that a picture is worth a thousand words. This one tells it all. It's the whole story, from beginning to end. I hope he's as willing to demonstrate his skills as he is to advertise. If more of us were this easy to please, the world would be a much better place.

Monday, November 15, 2010

Nipple Play!

I am a nipple man! I am aroused through nipple foreplay! I love having my nipples tongued, caressed, kissed, sucked, tweaked, squeezed, stroked and nibbled. Play with mine and I'll play with yours. I love reciprocating on my BF after he's given mine a good workout. As far as I'm concerned, nipple foreplay can last for hours on end. Want to delve deep into my delicious? Then all you have to do is show my nipples some serious love. Nothing unleashes my passion and fuels my freak like my pectoral rosebuds being serviced or servicing the dark blossums on my man.

Believe, my BF understands and knows my game here. He has the key to start my engine, accelerate it and keep it running. This weekend past he knew what he wanted, he knew what I needed, he delivered and he got his just rewards. It was our chill weekend and my rosebuds were pleased many times over. The freedom to please without having to look at a clock or even to think about the next hour or two was a relief. My boyfriends on my chest got all the attention they richly deserved. They're both equally sore, swollen and tender today. Like Mickey-Ds, I'm lovin' it!

We all realize the sex-cess of a relationship doesn't guarentee that it is successful. The physical and the sexual is good and important but it doesn't finish the picture. The emotional, mental, soulful and spiritual bonding is necessary so that a meaningful relationship can develop and grow. A relationship needs communication, compromise, patience and work from both individuals. We all know that all work and no play can lead to boredom. Nothing puts out a flame faster than same-ol', same-ol'.

That's why some freak is good and essential. Adding some nasty to the physical not only excites, it helps rekindle the desire and the romance. It's the spice that sometimes makes the difference between mundane and erotic. It not only benefits the relationship, it is also physically rewarding to both partners. And that's a good thing.

Friday, November 12, 2010

Chill Weekend

Just what my BF and I need: a stress free weekend together. Time to chill together, share together, hang out together and then to enjoy a little time together in our seperate spaces. We love our friends and families; but some quality time together, just ourselves, is good also. It gives the both of us the chance to unwind from the world and then to renew us as a couple. I'll let him spoil and pamper me some; then, I'll return the favor. Trust, the giving is good but the receiving can be just as pleasurable also.

The last time that we had a weekend all to ourselves, we really got freaky with body paint! The creativity was fun, the lovemaking afterwards was so relaxing and hot and the post-intimate cleanup offered a few surprises as well. I'm stopping past the supermarket on my way home from work. I want to get some jello and whipped cream. No plans, just see what will develop. Who knows?

One thing I am certain. We'll both make the best of this special time together. After this weekend, the crazy and hectic holiday season is upon us. It will be the new year before we have another chance for a weekend like this.

Monday, November 1, 2010

Exercise Your Right!

Tomorrow, November 2, 2010, is Election Day. I know that many gay people are angry and upset with our current government and the slow response to issues dealing with our community. I feel the same. It seems like every promise made to us hasn't been delivered. We're disappointed and we have every right to feel that way. I am, like most of us, very pissed off about this.

Ignoring this election or just staying home isn't an option for our people. All we need to do is look around us to see all the extremists candidates (read: tea-baggers) who are promising division, hate, exclusion and oppression if elected. If they win, the future looks very bad for all of us as a community and our nation as a whole. Sitting out this election is not in our best interests.

We are totally correct in our frustration with the uncaring attitude of our current government. They are a pathetic group of spineless individuals. Remaining on the sidelines and allowing a bigoted, fascist victory doesn't benefit any of us at all. It will only make things worse than what they already are.