The World Through My Eyes

The World Through My Eyes: A collection of essays, reflections and thoughts about men, sex, love, relationships, politics, friendships, nudism, current events, social concerns, humanitarian issues, religion and all those wonderful experiences that constitute life as seen and felt by me: a thirty-something Deaf Gay man of mixed racial heritage (half-black, half-white) living in the Virginia Beach area of the United States. A scrapbook of my life. I've been a confirmed Gay nudist for the past 20 years (since puberty). Sometimes, we just need to step back and chill and try not to be so serious and tense. Life is short, stand up and get into it!

Friday, January 27, 2012

Snow Whites

Yes, the title may at first glance seem racist but that is not the intention at all. The men pictured are white, true; bit the aim is to refer to the seasonal snow and not the race. Besides, I'm half-white, myself. I am featuring naked white men for this post as the title indicates. I am a nudist so the majority of the men I picture with this blog are nude.

I like to include men who are attractive and representative of all men, not any special ethnicity or race. More often than not, these show black and/or hispanic men, as well as those like me: mixed-race; half-breeds, mutts. That's because more than 90% of the images available online or in hardcopy media are white. Most people identify with others they believe to be most similar to themselves. Race identification is a part of this process.

In the interest of being inclusive, this entry is exclusively Caucasian. As gay men, we appreciate the anatomy and beauty of all men, regardless of skin color. So sit back and enjoy. By the way, I prefer this type of snow whites instead of the powdery white shit that falls from the sky this time of year! LOL!

Sunday, January 22, 2012

I Like Porn!

That's true and I'm not ashamed to admit to the fact! Unlike other gay men, whether in or out of relationships, I enjoy watching hot, hardcore porn DVDs, either alone when I feel that special urge that we all know, or with my boyfriend as a prelude to our lovemaking, I'm a fan! I even, at times, will buy a pornographic magazine if any of the models pictured catch the attention of my eye or my dick. I don't hide the fact like some do; I call it for what it really is: porn. I refuse to try to hide it as "adult entertainment" or "mature content" amusement. Yes, it is amusement but at the same time, it's porn, period. No more, no less.

I admit that I don't really care for what's named softcore porn. Limp dicks and dry humping just don't work for me. I want to see the real action, the horse-hung cock pounding a tight, generous and willing ass. I want to see a hungry mouth take the dick all the way and enjoying it while his pleasure hole is being rimmed or finger-fucked. I like it rough and I want to see it rough, although consensual and respectful. I buy the porn for the action, the sweating and writhing bodies all the while showing two or more men wrestling and pleasing one another as only men can: sucking, fucking, rimming and giving their all!

As a gay man, I know that no one can satisfy my sexual needs like another man. A man who knows what it feels like understands exactly what makes me feel good. He knows what to do to ignite my passion just as I know how to ignite his. For that reason, no heterosexual porn or bisexual porn does it for me. I want my porn to show men servicing other men, either one-on-one or as a group. That's just me being honest and being me. Fortunately, my boyfriend is the same, so there's no problem in that department. When we go porn-shopping together, we know what we like. And yes, we use porn to enhance and spice our sex life. Why not? We all enjoy a few nice surprises and it keeps the intimacy alive and interesting.    

I've never felt any embarrassment or shame about liking porn. It's no big deal to me. I know of many gay men who think differently: that's fine, if, and only if, that's the truth. However, for most of them, I bet it's the opposite. I have numerous friends who joke and laugh about others buying porn, yet that hidden closet inside their apartments and homes has porn collections that dwarf mine. Why waste all the time and effort putting down others when you do the same? Porn is healthy and natural; there's nothing wrong with it. There's no disgrace in owning it, so why try to hide? As long as it's legal, responsible and respectful, own it, view it and masturbate or fuck while it's on the screen! 

Tuesday, January 17, 2012

Torsos: Headless

I guess the title should read: Torsos: Faceless. Be that as it may, I just want to share with all of you some images of the male torso. Handsome and masculine chests and abdomens of the men around us. During the summer months, a welcome and familiar sight as we go about our daily business.  Fortunately for us gay men, it's perfectly legal for our boys to show off their half-naked bodies! Now, I prefer my guys completely nude; but, half is better than none at all, right?

In the dead of winter, I figure there's no better time than the present to share some images of a few male torsos. A visual reminder that summer is returning and soon we'll be able to enjoy these sexy sights on a daily basis once again. Sort of like an appetizer before a delicious meal. Something to tantalize and excite those starved taste buds! Feast your eyes on these manly delights and enjoy!

Whether pumped up from workouts or thick from nature, slender or beefy, the home of our nipples and the source of our pleasure trails provide a mixture of eye candy that many can't resist. Naturally furry or naturally smooth, few of us are able to refuse their masculine beauty!

Saturday, January 14, 2012

Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr

"Whatever affects one directly, affects all indirectly. I can never be what I ought to be until you are what you ought to be. This is the interrelated structure of reality." 

Monday, January 9, 2012

Friends Together

Last week, after the Christmas/New Year's holiday break at the school where I teach, I walked into my first faculty meeting of 2012. I was full of hope for the new year and of new changes and developments in my life. BAM! It hit me hard, once again: more of the same old shit! The tables in the school library were full of my professional colleagues in the same seating pattern as before. Nothing different. Blacks sitting with blacks and whites sitting with whites. Just like one race would infect the other. Our skin color is contagious.

I mean, it's not like I'm expecting them to pair off and fuck. After all, this is a business meeting. All that I'm wishing is that we can mix it up and just sit together. Can't we be coworkers without taking into account race?

Besides, as a man who's father is Greek and who's mother is Nigerian, where do I sit? I know even though it isn't spoken that some blacks think me too white. Similar, some whites think of me as too black. So where I fit into the picture? Do I need to get a chair, place it between a table of whites and a table of blacks and sit by myself?

That's one of the many reasons that I'm a gay nudist. Once you remove the clothes, there's nothing left to hide from anyone. Yes, the race is still obvious; that's never going to change. But what's also equally plain and obvious is that there's no anatomical difference whatsoever. Every man has a dick and an ass. They're just not all the same size or color. I've discovered that when naked, we're all, black, white or mixed, a little more relaxed about being together and are comfortable in socializing in groups irregardless of skin color.

Maybe it's because we're checking out each other's junk. Maybe we want to get a closer look at someone's cakes. It perhaps is due to an interesting tattoo that another dude has strategically placed on his body. Who knows and who cares? I mean, we're all nude because we want to be, right?

So maybe we should all get naked and fraternize in every one of life's situations. That way, we can get past the racial thing and start to become friends. That solution works fine for me! And you?


Monday, January 2, 2012

Fresh Year! Fresh Month! Fresh Faces!

January, 2012: it's a new year, beginning now with a new month. A time to recall the old and at the same time to eagerly look forward to all that's bright and new. When we think about the year behind us, we can't help but to also think about what the future may bring us. A new acquaitance? A new friend? A new lover? A new boyfriend? A new partner?

Now, it's true that most of us are comfortable with the status quo. We like the routine and and what we're familiar with. It's well known and comes with few surprises. After all, it's already a part of us. It takes little adjustment on our part.

But a new face? That's something exciting. A welcome change to the everyday and ordinary. The potential is endless and it offers us a distraction and an adventure. Will he be the one that maybe changes my life? Is he the one to rock my world and turn it upside down?  A spark of danger and uncertainty to spice up our day/night/weekend/year?   A breath of fresh air that recharges and energizes us in a way that we haven't felt in a long time?

It doesn't really matter too much the reason why to most of us. We like a new person in our lives. It gives us a challenge in building our friendship or relationship. It expands our social circle. It gives us a new someone to share laughter, tears, good and bad times.  Besides, sometimes it just makes us feel good about ourselves and our lives. Happy New Year! Happy New Face!