The World Through My Eyes

The World Through My Eyes: A collection of essays, reflections and thoughts about men, sex, love, relationships, politics, friendships, nudism, current events, social concerns, humanitarian issues, religion and all those wonderful experiences that constitute life as seen and felt by me: a thirty-something Deaf Gay man of mixed racial heritage (half-black, half-white) living in the Virginia Beach area of the United States. A scrapbook of my life. I've been a confirmed Gay nudist for the past 20 years (since puberty). Sometimes, we just need to step back and chill and try not to be so serious and tense. Life is short, stand up and get into it! nekkidfurryboi@gmail.com.

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Friday, December 1, 2023

World AIDS Day, 2023!

 


December 1, annually: World AIDS Day!



Remember what you know to be protected!


Help keep everyone happy and healthy!

Basic Facts:

HIV is the virus that causes AIDS.

AIDS is a result of HIV infection.

HIV can be prevented but not cured.

Only a physician can diagnose AIDS.


HIV is not transmitted by casual contact!

Peace!

Nekkid Furry Boi















Sunday, October 1, 2023

October: Our History Month!

 


USA: October = GLBTQ+ History Month!

Our time to proudly and publicly share our story! Everyone has a story that enables us all to be who we all are! 


We make our own history everyday in our own special way. Our GLBTQ+ history has been neglected and ignored for a very long period of time. The website linked below is a resource we can all use to explore our past and to plan for our future! 


Our stories are as exciting, funny and varied as are the numbers of us within our culture. Please take advantage of this challenge and learn something different and new about us this month. 

By working together, we can help make the journeys of those coming after us can remember to do the same!


And let us keep in mind that our heritage is without clothing but it is with us all!

For additional information on GLBTQ+ History Month, click below:





Remember: an important part of our history includes our nakedness! 


Peace!

Nakkid Furry Boi













Sunday, September 24, 2023

Footnote 4 U!

 


Since I took an extended sabbatical from writing here on Nekkid Furry Boi, a footnote - at the very least - is in order. You may refer to it as an "update" (to each their own)! That's entirely your preference!

My name is Michael Poladopoulos and I hold triple citizenships: Greek, Nigerian and USA. My father is Greek, my mother is Nigerian and I was born here in the USA after being conceived in Nigeria! I'm a same gender loving (SGL) man, Basically, I'm gay! I'm also a naturist/nudist. I prefer to be clothes free - bare - whenever and wherever possible! I'm also a mixed-race man. I'm also profoundly Deaf and communicate in person using sign language. 

This blog title? My own creation! 

Nekkid = naked, bare, clothes free, nude

Furry = hairy (either profuse, moderate, or sparse). Let it all grow naturally: armpits, chest, pubic - it's all good! I only use a razor on my face! 

Boi = boy (male, men) I repeat: I am SGL! Men R 4 me!

Sexually, I am almost exclusively a beta-boi (bottom-man). I prefer a man's erection inside me: anally and/or orally!  



Since we live in a world where the overwhelming majority wear clothing, there is a request that I have for each one of you: when you're with me: s-t-r-i-p! Get naked! Lose the clothes and the false modesty! 


I'm also adding a new series here on Nekkid Furry Boi. Beginning on Monday, October 2, 2023, Celebrity Mondays will be published here the first Monday of every month! It will feature some of the best pornography performers with tantalizing tidbits of their personal information so we can all get naked together and learn more about one another! A good cock is very hard to hide!

Peace!

Nekkid Furry Boi












Tuesday, April 22, 2014

Furry Delights!


Some men refer to them as bears. I like to think of them as furry delights! There's something pleasing and sexy being with a man who allows his body hair to grow, naturally. It doesn't make any difference if he's smooth with just armpit and pubic hair or if he's able to have a forest covering his back, chest and all over.


Race or ethnicity doesn't matter, hairy is fine with me.



I want my man to look like a man, not a plucked chicken!



Thursday, January 24, 2013

Fresh Faces For A New Year


It's not too late in the new year to celebrate the grace, elegance, strength and most importantly, the rugged beauty of the faces of all men.


No matter their race or combination thereof, each face represents a man and his own specific character and wisdom.



A creation that reveals the soul of a man through his eyes.




And the eyes also tells the tale of his heart.

The heart and soul of a man all found in the handsomeness of his own unique face. 

Monday, July 16, 2012

Is It Just Me?


Is it race? Is it homophobia? Both? Is it size insecurity? Is it all three? What I want to know is, what the fuck is the problem? I know I've experienced these types of looks and body language when I've been at a nude beach. Why is that? Why is it one single black/mixed race man threatens some white folks? Are they afraid that it's something contagious? Skin color is inherited through genes, it's not transmittable.

If it's penis envy/insecurity, get over it. As nudists, all of us already know that size doesn't matter. At least, not the size of a relaxed penis. All dicks, when erect, have the potential to deliver pleasure to the sexual partner, no matter if that person is a man or a woman. A flaccid cock may hang nicely and swing gracefully, but that's just appearances. It's no indication of sexual prowess or stamina for the male of female partner.

Is it racial prejudice or stereotype? The black man is bigger therefore he's a threat to everyone, regardless of their sex? Come on, get over yourself. As nudists on a clothing-optional beach, we've all seen penises of all shapes, sizes and colors. Just because the darker one is bigger doesn't mean a damn thing. The myth "once they've gone black, they'll never go back" is nothing more than that: a myth. I know: I've had black ones and I've had white ones. A dick is dick. The color is the least concern (at least, as a mixed race man, for me). It's what a man can do with his cock that counts. I think we all understand that.

Is it because the brother is gay and the white dude is heterosexual? That is nothing more than stupidity. If the straight is afraid for the safety of his female date, a gay man is the very least of his worries. The gay man wants another man, another penis; not a vagina. Think about that one and then get back to me. Besides, if you hate gay men that much, get your ass off a naked beach and go to a clothing beach. They're more gay men at a nude beach than you imagine. All those unclothed cocks and asses roaming around, where do you expect them to go?

I've never set foot on a nudist beach that I haven't gotten "those" looks from straight white men. And I've asked around and know that I'm not the only gay black/mixed-race man who's had this experience. Many others have undergone the same. What the hell is it?

On the other hand, maybe it's not race or homophobia at all. Perhaps the dude is threatened because the brother has more body hair (like me)? Or, it could be the white guy is closeted and secretly wants some dick? Now, that's something to consider. 

Tuesday, May 1, 2012

Naughty But Nice!


April Showers Bring May Flowers!

I don't think I have to add anything more. The picture alone speaks for itself!
I do want to ask the question: Which is better? April or May?

Monday, April 16, 2012

A Cock Is Always A Cock



A cock is always a cock. Most of us love to suck them and many of us love to have them fuck us, anally or orally. We like to feel them, play with them and, to be truthful, we love to stroke them. As men, no matter our sexual orientation, we are obsessed with them. They are our emblems of our masculinity. They are our manhood.

So, regardless of the angle or the view, we love our cocks. And we often go to great lengths to protect them. From any perspective, we enjoy looking at our cocks. Almost as much as we like to work them! So, get busy! Exercise your cock! LOL!

Monday, January 9, 2012

Friends Together


Last week, after the Christmas/New Year's holiday break at the school where I teach, I walked into my first faculty meeting of 2012. I was full of hope for the new year and of new changes and developments in my life. BAM! It hit me hard, once again: more of the same old shit! The tables in the school library were full of my professional colleagues in the same seating pattern as before. Nothing different. Blacks sitting with blacks and whites sitting with whites. Just like one race would infect the other. Our skin color is contagious.

I mean, it's not like I'm expecting them to pair off and fuck. After all, this is a business meeting. All that I'm wishing is that we can mix it up and just sit together. Can't we be coworkers without taking into account race?


Besides, as a man who's father is Greek and who's mother is Nigerian, where do I sit? I know even though it isn't spoken that some blacks think me too white. Similar, some whites think of me as too black. So where I fit into the picture? Do I need to get a chair, place it between a table of whites and a table of blacks and sit by myself?


That's one of the many reasons that I'm a gay nudist. Once you remove the clothes, there's nothing left to hide from anyone. Yes, the race is still obvious; that's never going to change. But what's also equally plain and obvious is that there's no anatomical difference whatsoever. Every man has a dick and an ass. They're just not all the same size or color. I've discovered that when naked, we're all, black, white or mixed, a little more relaxed about being together and are comfortable in socializing in groups irregardless of skin color.

Maybe it's because we're checking out each other's junk. Maybe we want to get a closer look at someone's cakes. It perhaps is due to an interesting tattoo that another dude has strategically placed on his body. Who knows and who cares? I mean, we're all nude because we want to be, right?

So maybe we should all get naked and fraternize in every one of life's situations. That way, we can get past the racial thing and start to become friends. That solution works fine for me! And you?

  

Thursday, December 29, 2011

Happy 2012!


Best wishes and a Happy New Year to all! Thank you for your friendship and love over the past two years of my blogging here and I look forward to better times together in 2012! Be safe and much love!

Friday, October 14, 2011

GLBT History Month: Male Arts

Sculpture
Portrait
Photography
Dance

 
Literature

Men and masculinity, our celebration of ourselves and what is all the best about our GLBT culture and our gender. Enjoy GLBT History Month and all that is good about our heritage from our individual and shared past and all that is good about our individual and shared present. It is often written that art reflects life. This artistic mini-gallery presentation honors our self-expression and our beauty.  Be proud and stand tall my gay brothers! 

Friday, April 29, 2011

Nipple Body Art

I Love This Tattoo
Hey there, I know there are a thousand other things out for me to focus on besides some body art (tattoo) on a man. I'm sure by the time you've read this far, most of you have already thought of at least two (namely, cocks and ass). Most of us gay men think on the same page. I'm no different from anyone else. But, every now and again, I see something that I like and I'm intrigued.

I'm not really into tats. I'm way too skinny to have one on my arms or legs. What the hell do I mean, I'm too thin to sport one on my neck as well. And I have too much fur on my chest and my ass to even think about having one on either. Honestly, I'm too proud of my ass and chest fur to think about shaving any of it for a tattoo. So, I'm here, slim and all skin, no body ink. Just me.

However, a couple of weeks back, at a nudist social, I saw this guy with a tat similar to the one pictured here. It was on one pec and incorporated the nipple, then down his arm ending at his half-forearm. You all know that I'm a serious nipple-man (among other regions of the male anatomy) and I was attracted to the way his ink included his nipple into the design. It looked both hot and cool, at the same time. The way the one pictured here does. It made me want to just bend down and start tonguing those nips right then and there, in front of all the other men present. Yes, I do know how to fantacize like a two-bit-ho! LOL!

Anyway, I asked my BF for the umpteenth time if he thought I should get a tattoo. He replied as he always has: better to be an amateur artist than be an art gallery. At least, he agrees with me!

Thursday, April 21, 2011

Easter Greetings!

"Indeed, Christ Is Risen" is the Easter message on this holiday card. I wish to everyone of you all the best of joy, hope and happiness during this very special time of the year. In the Greek Orthodox faith, this is the holiest of holidays on the liturgical calendar and this feast always has a very important place within my heart. For me, this time is much more than an assortment of chocolates and other candies (not that I dislike any of them). It's more about rebirth and renewal, putting the past mistakes and wrongs behind and beginning with a clean slate, starting off fresh, one more time. It's also about family and all those we love and hold dear to us. Lastly, but most importantly, it's about faith, our values and our beliefs. I'm on my way to spend this greatest of holidays with my BF and my family, immediate and extended. Happy Easter to all! God bless!


The Resurrection Icon

Sunday, March 20, 2011

Nudity

Michelangelo's "David" Statue
"What spirit is so empty and so blind that it cannot recognize the fact that the foot is more noble than the shoe and the skin more beautiful than the garment with which it is clothed?"

Michelangelo

Friday, December 3, 2010

We Decide What Words Hurt

As in all aspects of our own lives, we determine the words, the labels, the epitaphs, the slanders or the identities that harm us. The term or phrase that causes us to feel humiliation and guilt for being us. The real person that we are. Our essence, our being, ourselves. To own and to accept those pejoratives, those negatives, those stereotypes is power!! This empowerment produces pride in both who and what I am as a person and as a man who has sex with men.

The names that are hurled upon me with the intention of causing inferiority and shame no longer bother me nor longer bring discomfort to me. You don't have that control  and determination over my existence here on this Earth. You are weak in your insecurity and I am strong in my identity. I realize exactly who and what I am and I don't need you to acknowledge nor affirm that reality. I know me. You don't. Your doubt and self-hatred isn't my problem.

I'm gay. I'm a sissy. I'm a faggot. I'm queer. I suck cock. I fuck when I have to and get fucked when I choose to. I have sex with men. I'm same gender loving. I have a limp wrist when I want to and a fist when I need to. If required, all I need to do is to kick you in your balls, next your face and then walk away. Your fake macho-pride handles the rest. Any fairy can fly away, homie!

Spit what you must! Sling and shout what you think is true. Remember, I can live with your deficiencies in your manhood. You can't survive my strengths in mine!

Wednesday, September 1, 2010

Initial Entry

I've walked through the door and entered the world of blogging. Now, which path to take and exactly where this jouney will take me, I don't have a clue. That's probably the reason that beginnings are so exciting and scary, all at the same time. The simple act of undertaking a new project is fun and inspiring, and not the least bit intimidating.

I've kept a journal most of my adult life. That part of me is private. This is the part of me, myself and I that I am offering the world to see and judge. I am a realist and I know for a fact that others will judge me. Why sweat it? It happens all the time and I know that I can never change that fact of nature. I've learned to accept it and move on. After all, I've 33 years of experience in handling judgments due to my biraciality, sexuality, nudity, Deafness and a dual interest in arts and athletics. Judgments don't bother me, but stupidity does test my patience and tolerance.

I think I'll make it a habit to publish here only when I'm naked (which, truth is, almost all the time except when I'm at work). I don't have anything to hide so I may as well hang loose and enjoy the ride!