Summer is here and it is a time for us all to go forth, exit those protective winter cocoons and enjoy life! A time for us to chase those dreams, seek out those fantasies and experience life. Too much work and procrastination and the most important gift that we have, life, soon, all too soon, passes us by. So let's all get out, get naked and allow ourselves the pleasure that we often deny ourselves. Go forth and seek out a good time. As long as we're responsible and honest, there's nothing wrong with being ourselves and trying to be happy!
Too often, we consider ourselves unworthy of an innocent summer romance, fling or thing. Many times, we don't think that we've deserved it. Sometimes, we're leary about it simply because we operate on the assumption that it is beyond our grasp. Nothing could be further from the truth. As gay men, we have every right to seek out our happiness wherever we can find it. Maybe the summer encounter won't last through the autumn. But then again, we'll never know the truth until we try. Maybe that kiss will lead to a one-night fuck-fest. Or, it might lead to more. Again, if we don't take the plunge, we'll never know for sure.
What's important is that we go for it and allow it to happen. We grab the moment and see where it will take us. Live just a little in the present and take a chance on life. As long as we communicate honestly with each other and act in a mature and responsible manner (this includes discussing the use of condoms before we become intimately involved), enjoying the physical intimacy of another man is good for our mental, emotional and physical health. Let yourself go and let life happen. Celebrate living and celebrate summer. Embrace life!
It's summertime and the heat is on, baby! What better way to cool things off than with a pool party/splash party. Traditionally, a gathering of friends and family around and in the backyard pool. Usually, this event is accompanied by tables of food and beverages (hopefully, non-alcoholic). A perfect way to spend the hot afternoons or evenings with those we love. Games, food, splashing and relaxation. This is one of the many reasons that enabled us to survive the cruel winter weather. So, what happens when a friend drops in unexpectedly on a sweltering summer afternoon? You weren't expecting anyone and you're low on snacks and refreshments? Well, you can be creative and improvise....!
