Beta-Boi's to Alpha-Man: Happy Valentine's Day!

 

A most fitting way to honour your alpha-man (top-man): a fresh floral bouquet placed between his manhood and his testicles! In sincere appreciation for the delight he delivers inside your buttocks!

A box of candy presented to the man who fulfills your endless starving buttocks every time you crawl into bed together!

A sure sign that you love the satisfaction his erection delivers into you!

You know you want it! Give it up, my fellow betas!

Happy Valentine's Day!

Nekkid Furry Boi

St. Nicholas Day And Sharing

December 6 every year is the feast day of St. Nicholas in the Greek Orthodox litugical calendar. Many of you who have followed my blog from the beginning know that St. Nicholas is one of my favorite saints. He is also the model for the current legend of Santa Claus.


It isn't the presents that make St. Nicholas one of my favorites. It is his legacy of sharing, of charity, of caring for and service to those less fortunate. I admire and respect this habit, practice and trait in all men. I am a firm believer in the wisdom that it takes an entire village to raise a child and that we are all collectively responsible for the well-being of others. I try to do whatever possible to help those less fortunate whenever I can in my personal life. It's the act of practicing what you preach. It's just a part of the man that I am. Fortunately, my boyfriend is the same. No surprise there, it's probably one of the attractions that brought us together in the first place.

 

 

Our first Christmas season together as a couple, in 2009, we hosted a nude social in my apartment the Sunday closest to St. Nicholas Day and asked that each of our guests bring a new toy to be given to a charity for a needy child. Twelve men attended (including us) and we collected twelve gifts. In 2010, our first year in our new townhome, we had nineteen friends and the same number of presents. Last year, 2011, we had 26 men and 26 donations. This weekend will be our fourth year of our St. Nicholas tradition.  

 

Our custom now extends beyond just St. Nicholas Day. Last year, we added another worthy cause and held another nude party to encourage our naked buddies to assist us. We hold this second social during the summer. It's a way of combining our committment to helping with our nudist lives and having fun in the process. Our small part to make this big world a better place. It's best to give than to receive.

 

Happy St. Nicholas Day!

Riding The Dick

Being a "bottom man" is often referred to in gay sexual circles as being the "passive" partner. I don't know about you, but for me, being the one getting fucked is anything but passive. Passive implies inactive, uninvolved and indifferent. With a nice, good-sized dick inside my ass, I'm NOT going to be inactive and aloof! Far from it! No damn way I'll stay indifferent! LOL!

I prefer to be fucked by my boyfriend. Before our relationship, I've always liked to take the cock up my ass. Unlike some other gay men, I see no shame it being the perpetual bottom. After all, most men like some ass and without me, they'd never have what it is they want! It takes "two to tango" so what's wrong with wanting to get some like a man should?

I enjoy fucking; don't misunderstand me. I like some ass, too! But given the choice, I'd rather get my jollies with a man's tool taking care of my needs and this means me opening myself up for us both to be satisfied.

My favorite sexual position as a bottom is to "ride" or "mount" the cock. This allows me to control, measure and monitor the amount of dick inside me. It lets me make the penetration of my ass comfortable and pleasurable for me. I can make our love-making as a mutual pleasing and gratifying experience and good for the both of us. It's a win-win situation.

For me, it makes no difference if I'm facing my sex partner or if I've got my back towards him. Actually, as I ride him, about midway through our fuck session, I like to turn around and face the opposite direction. This helps to keep business interesting. As the bottom who's on top, I regulate how much dick I take at any given moment. I determine the intensity and speed of our intercourse. It isn't the issue of control as much as it is ensuring making this a mutually pleasing experience for the both of us. I make sure that we're both getting what we need. It's a joy ride for all!

Mounting then riding the man I'm with permits me to ease down on his cock and gives me time to adjust to his size. It guarantees that my A-spot will be hit, again and again. It's an act of quality control, making sure that we're both equally getting what we want and need. It's sort of like a live customer satisfaction survey. When I service a man, I aim to please! After four years into our relationship, my boyfriend has never complained. Truth is, he keeps cummin' back for more!

Besides, sometimes I like to fantasize about being a real-life cowboy!   

A Cock Is Always A Cock

A cock is always a cock. Most of us love to suck them and many of us love to have them fuck us, anally or orally. We like to feel them, play with them and, to be truthful, we love to stroke them. As men, no matter our sexual orientation, we are obsessed with them. They are our emblems of our masculinity. They are our manhood.

So, regardless of the angle or the view, we love our cocks. And we often go to great lengths to protect them. From any perspective, we enjoy looking at our cocks. Almost as much as we like to work them! So, get busy! Exercise your cock! LOL!

No Razors, Please

Sorry, but I don't mean to offend anyone reading this. This is strictly my own personal opinion and not a judgment. I am just not attracted to any man who shaves his armpit, chest or pubic hairs. To me, it simply looks too fake, too unnatural, too unreal. In my mind, part of the process of becoming a man is to undergo puberty. This means the growth of armpit and pubic hair in most men. The appearance of chest hair is determined by heredity and is not universal. It doesn't matter how muscular or built the guy is; the man just ain't a man if there's no naturally growing hair where it should be. Like I said, that's me being me.

I know some men like the smooth look. I know some men think it makes them look neat and sexy. I know that some men shave their pubic hair because they think it makes their dick seem bigger than what it really is. I respect their decision to shave their bodies, totally or partially. It's not attractive or sexy for me.

I'm a man who has sex with men: I'm gay. When I want sex with another man, I prefer being with a man who actually looks like a man and not a prepubescent child. I want my man to have hair where it should be: at the very least, in his armpits and pubic areas. Part of the pleasure of having sex with another man is getting that stray pubic hair inside my mouth or nose. That reminds me that I'm being sexed by another man. It comes with the turf.

It doesn't make any difference to me as to the amount of body hair a man has. As long as it's natural and not artificial. It can be thick and bushy or sparse and thin: no matter. What's important is just be the man that you really are. If a man has a naturally smooth chest, that's cool. But please don't shave the chest hairs to try to impress me, because it won't work. Leave all your body hair intact. It makes you look like a man should look: manly. That's what counts in my book. A man who's a man.  

To me, a man with shaved pubes looks a little strange, somewhat off-balance. I mean, we all know what's supposed to be there. Without pubic hair, it appears ugly and missing something. As for the illusion that by shaving the pubic hairs the actual penis appears larger, we all know that one. Therefore, the illusion evaporates as we're aware as to the reason for shaving. It defeats the purpose altogether. And then there's the stubble issue. I don't like getting stubble-burn from sucking cock.

The race of the shaved man doesn't matter, either. Shaved is shaved regardless of the color of the skin. What isn't attractive on one man isn't automatically appealing on another based on pigmentation. What's true for one is generally true for all, at least, to me.



Friends Together

Last week, after the Christmas/New Year's holiday break at the school where I teach, I walked into my first faculty meeting of 2012. I was full of hope for the new year and of new changes and developments in my life. BAM! It hit me hard, once again: more of the same old shit! The tables in the school library were full of my professional colleagues in the same seating pattern as before. Nothing different. Blacks sitting with blacks and whites sitting with whites. Just like one race would infect the other. Our skin color is contagious.

I mean, it's not like I'm expecting them to pair off and fuck. After all, this is a business meeting. All that I'm wishing is that we can mix it up and just sit together. Can't we be coworkers without taking into account race?


Besides, as a man who's father is Greek and who's mother is Nigerian, where do I sit? I know even though it isn't spoken that some blacks think me too white. Similar, some whites think of me as too black. So where I fit into the picture? Do I need to get a chair, place it between a table of whites and a table of blacks and sit by myself?


That's one of the many reasons that I'm a gay nudist. Once you remove the clothes, there's nothing left to hide from anyone. Yes, the race is still obvious; that's never going to change. But what's also equally plain and obvious is that there's no anatomical difference whatsoever. Every man has a dick and an ass. They're just not all the same size or color. I've discovered that when naked, we're all, black, white or mixed, a little more relaxed about being together and are comfortable in socializing in groups irregardless of skin color.

Maybe it's because we're checking out each other's junk. Maybe we want to get a closer look at someone's cakes. It perhaps is due to an interesting tattoo that another dude has strategically placed on his body. Who knows and who cares? I mean, we're all nude because we want to be, right?

So maybe we should all get naked and fraternize in every one of life's situations. That way, we can get past the racial thing and start to become friends. That solution works fine for me! And you?

  

Size: The Poll Results Are In

The first poll here has closed and the results are visible for all. Just look at the top right side of your screen for the decision. Not surprisingly, the size of the penis of our partner isn't an issue for the majority of us. We're content to work with what we've got and live with it. We accept the fact that not all of us are exceptionally endowed, we cope with reality and move on with our lives. Not all of us are going to capture the biggest and the best. The truth is, as many of us know from experience, the biggest is not a key to satisfaction. Often, the largest is also a very BIG disappointment. Nothing is as frustrating as being sexually involved with a man who selfishly and stupidly thinks his magnitude alone invokes sensual gratitude. His size may get him envious second-looks in the locker room but produce many less-than-satisfactory scores in the bedroom.

At the same time, we need to remember not to discriminate against anyone based solely on their respective penis size. Simply because it's big doesn't automatically mean that it's not good. A large penis may not always be what we think; however, the size doesn't necessarily indicate an unsatisfactory encounter. On the opposite end of the spectrum, we need to remember that there are some big boys who are able to deliver as visibly promised. The phrase "looks can sometimes be deceiving" works both ways and we all need to keep this in mind. Appearances aren't everything. There is no definitive rule as to penile size, erect or flaccid, in every situation. All of us are individuals with our own preferences.

As long as both partners are happy with their relationship, who are we to judge? As long as it is doable for them, why bother? The majority of us agree that cock-size is of minor importance. We have our opinions and our thoughts as to what is best for us. Others are free to differ and enjoy their lives.

In the final tabulation, it isn't the physical image of size that counts. It's how the tool performs that matters most!    

Size

Most of us already know that it isn't the length nor circumference of the flaccid (soft) penis that indicates the true size of a man. Through experience, we've learned that it's the erect (hard) cock that shows us how big he really is. Almost all of us agree that it's not the size of the manhood but rather what the man does with his tool that delivers pleasure and satisfaction during foreplay and intimacy. Still, old habits die slowly and many of us continue to judge other men by the size of their cock. I suppose that's just a natural thing and we'll do so until the end of time.

I'm curious about the importance we place on the size of the penis during sex. Is it truly that big of a deal? Please take a moment and vote your choice in the poll located to your right on your screen. The voting closes in a week and the results may prove interesting or even a complete surprise. Thanks!