Happy 2012!

Best wishes and a Happy New Year to all! Thank you for your friendship and love over the past two years of my blogging here and I look forward to better times together in 2012! Be safe and much love!

Happy Kwanzaa

Kwanzaa is the seven-day celebration of family, community and culture that is observed December 26 through January 1. It honors both the African-American and Pan-African heritage of all peoples of African descent. The Seven Priciples of Kwanzaa encourage our people in faith, independence, pride and self-sufficiency. The Seven Priciples and their meaning are:

Umoja: Unity

Kujichagulia: Self-determination

Ujima: Collective work and responsibility

Ujamaa: Cooperative economics

Nia: Purpose

Kuumba: Creativity

Imani: Faith



The Nativity Feast

The Feast of the Nativity is December 25!

Happy Christmas!

Safe Santa Suggestions

The picture above is by Tom of Finland, a noted gay artist, who often illustrated the characters of the leather and fetish members of gay life. This one, aside from the holiday theme shows Santa stuffing his junk inside a stocking. Nothing wrong with that! Many of us welcome Santa's junk, or any other cock, anytime during the year. This is only natural to us as gay men. But in this day and time, it isn't all that simple anymore.

We all need to be responsible and protect both ourselves and our sexual partners. It makes no difference if our partner is a one-time hook-up, an anonymous trick or a faithful lover. Every sexual encounter is the same. If there's a possibility for the exchange of any body fluid, then we need to act as reasonable and responsible men. Cover the junk and protect ourselves and our men that we're sexing. It's that simple. I can't break it down any other way.

It's all about wearing a condom when we're having sex. If you take the dick, then you need to make sure the cock has a condom on before you allow it to tap your ass. If you give the dick, then you put a condom on before you even think about getting any. That's the way it is. By the way, condoms are everyone's responsibility, so there should always be one available. It's not solely the duty of the giver or receiver, but both.

Many of us have rounds of social activities planned for the season, as hosts or as guests. This presents opportunities for possible sexual engagements. Shop early and make certain plenty of condoms and water-based lubricant on hand. It isn't fun to be in the heat of passion and realize that your supply is empty. Plan ahead and avoid the rush.

A gift suggestion for a good friend? A stocking filled with condoms. What better way to show that you care than to share some lifesavers with those we love?

Sexy Christmas Trees

Once again, it's the time for us to bring out the decorations and to engage in the time-honored custom of adorning our Christmas trees with holiday splendor. Here's a new twist to this historic practice; a Christmas tree of men enjoying the best Christmas gift of all: sucking dick! A whole new meaning to the word Christmas balls!


These carnal delights only need a little imagination. Each picture features men tasting the masculine organ and the shape resembles that of the traditional holiday emblem: a Christmas tree. Threat your eyes on these bois as they treat themselves to one of our favorite treats: a nice hard dick!


Ho! Ho! Ho! Deck your halls while you lick those balls! These guyz are getting into the spirit of the season; don't wait until the last minute. Get out and get you some Christmas Cheer too! Ho! Ho! Ho!

St. Nicholas Feast Day, December 6



I was raised and consider myself a member of the Greek Orthodox Church. I also have a mind that I use and am able to see the difference between the words of mortal men and the Words of God. That being said, one of the favorite of all the Saints in the Orthodox Church is St. Nicholas of Myra, who lived from 270 A.D. to 343 A.D. He was the Bishop of Myra, in what is now Turkey. Because there were many miracles credited to his intervention, he is also known as St. Nicholas the WonderWorker. St. Nicholas had a reputation for anonymous gift-giving, such as leaving coins in the shoes of children. For this reason, he became the historical model for what is now the Santa Claus legend. His feast day is December 6, annually.

My parents taught my older sisters and myself of the responsibility of sharing with others and of helping those not quite as fortunate as ourselves. Today, I celebrate St. Nicholas Day by making a donation to a charity of my choice. I give to various charities throughout the year; however, I set aside a certain amount every payday for my St. Nicholas Stash. My partner does the same and each year on December 6, we make our contribution to a service organization that we've agreed to support for that particular year. It may or may not be a religious charity.

After making our gift, we generally treat ourselves to a special dinner out as a couple or with friends. This is followed by a luxurious bath together and then our own private celebration. Happy St. Nicholas Feast!

 

December 1, 2011: World AIDS Day

2011 WORLD AIDS DAY

THURSDAY, DECEMBER 1

REMEMBER TO WEAR A RED RIBBON

SHOW THAT YOU CARE AND ARE AWARE

JOIN THIS FIGHT TO ERADICATE

HIV IS THE VIRUS THAT CAUSES AIDS

AIDS IS A RESULT OF HIV INFECTION

HIV CAN BE PREVENTED

THE BEST PREVENTION IS EDUCATION

Thanksgiving, 2011

It's Thanksgiving! Where has all of 2011 gone? In keeping this blog, the year seems to be passing by all too fast. In keeping with the holiday this week, I want to take a few moments here to reflect on the things that I'm really grateful for in my life. The people that I truly love are at the top of the list: first, my partner, my lover, my soulmate and my friend. This is our third Thanksgiving together and each day gets better than the one before. I love you, my man!

Next on my list are my family. My parents, my siblings and their families. We grew together and fought together and still we're together: we're family. I love you all. Then, there's my extended family: much love and blessings to you! Especially to my twin first cousins: you're nine years older than me; wiser and experienced, yet you welcome and accept me as an equal in all that we share. Much love to you both and to your partners.

I appreciate all my friends and all of you here. Thank you for your love and support! You're the best! I love my community, all my gay brothers and sisters everywhere. I'm proud to be a gay man and I appreciate all of you in showing me the way. I'm a Deaf gay man who is also a humanitarian and a nudist. I'm happy with who I am and that confidence has come to me from all of you!

I'm appreciative of my heritage: both Greek and Nigerian. It hasn't always been easy deciding exactly who or what I am but the strength that I've received from both cultures have blessed me and made me a better man. I'm thankful to God for my faith that was instilled in me from birth. I believe but I'm not a blind follower. I know the love of the Almighty is greater than the hurtful words from mere mortals.  

Much love to each and every one of you who visit here! Happy Thanksgiving!

    

Mandingo: Actor From Yesteryear

Mandingo is the stage name of one of the few popular actors from our past. Good looking, light skinned and with a gymnast build, he was a familiar ass and cock in the 1980s pre-condom era. This was during a time with African-American and mixed race actors were not in a great demand in mainstream gay pornographic movies.

Mandingo was well-known for his generously sized cock, smooth chest and an ass that could receive any dick offered. He was very versatile in front of the camera and many times would go both ways in the same movie. His special talent was in any scene where his exceptional oral skills were featured.

Unusual for the times, Mandingo was able to avoid the cheaply produced Black films of the era and did most of his work with Falcon Studios. There are some scene clips of him currently available on their website. Some of the movies in which he received star credits are: Sex Magic, Weekend Lock Up, Dirt Bikes, Bronc Rider and Debauched Debauchery Orgies.

Happy Veteran's Day

THANK YOU TO ALL WHO RISKED ALL TO SERVE ALL OF US! HAPPY VETERAN'S DAY!

Mixed Race Erections

Mixed race, masculine and muscular! These men and their growing manhoods offer living proof that all of them are proud products of the best their diverse heritages have retained throughout the ages. And I, for one, can attest to the sexual prowess of these mixes of the races. They're all the epitome of what we like to call a man's man!

Some use the term biracial to describe these studs. Others refer to them as multiracial. As a Greek-Nigerian gay man, I prefer the mixed race name. Biracial, to me, means simply two-races. More often than not, many of us are the result of a combination of more than two racial groups.

To me, multiracial is just too monopolistic, like an international conglomerate that depersonalizes us all. I'm mixed, a mutt, and that's what I use.

Regardless of the label used, we are all beautiful, proud and embody the spirit of humanity. Some may judge us as too much of one culture or another. That might be true, but we know who and what we are and we're all comfortable with ourselves and the skin that we're in.  



 



Frosty Mornings, Chilly Nights

Summer is over, for this year, a season of the past. Now that it's gone, we're waking up to mornings where outside the windows, the landscape is covered with a layer of frost. Enough to let us know that "Baby, it's cold outside."


And that's not all. At evenings, the sun is setting earlier. Once it disappears, the thermometer plummets. Again, another reminder of the fact that "Baby, it's cold outside.


This upcoming weekend, the first one in the month of November, the time changes from Daylight Savings Time. This will shorten our days of sunlight even more. Longer nights and cooler temperatures. Oh yes, "Baby, it's cold outside."  What options do we have to spend all this extra time while inside?


We can console and comfort each other and create our own heat. It's the Fall season and "Baby, it's cold outside." Solution: now's the time for us to set our watches, alarms and clocks. Now is the time to fuck!

Happy Halloween!

Now, I think that we'll all agree that this is one of those good things that go Boo in the night! Not only does it feel good, it's very tasty, too! What's under the unique costume here adds an whole new meaning to the seasonal phrase: Trick or Treat! This is one kind of trick and treat that most of us would like to see more of! And nothing adds more pleasure to this ghoulish holiday than a nice cock to enjoy and engage as a part of the festivities! This is the way that I'd like to see this holiday celebrated each and every year! So, what are you waiting for? Grab that ghost and have yourself a Happy Halloween! 

Chrome Domes

Tiki Barber, half of the NFL's Barber twins and retired from the New York Giants team, (pictured left) first intoduced me to the term, "chrome dome," to identify men who shave their heads. I liked the description and have used it ever since. Chrome domes have always appealed to me since I was in my teen years. Next to a mans' nipples, it's my second favorite fetish/obsession. I find them extremely sexy and easily melt in their presence.

Not surprisingly, most of the men that I've dated and sexed are chrome domes. I love to caress, kiss,
then caress again, a freshly shaved head. For me, that is a major erotic thrill and really revs my engine (translation: instant erection) and puts me in the mood for whatever follows.  In case you're wondering, yes; I've often had fantasies about being in bed with Tiki and his twin, Ronde (NFL's Tampa franchise). What I wouldn't do to have the chance to make them both workout their manhoods on me! Man, even thinking about that dream is getting me extremely wet right about now! LOL!

Before I become too distracted, I'll let you know that I do have my own special moves that I use when I'm with a dude with a chrome dome. It's a major part of my foreplay routine that always gets the desired results before the real deal is sealed. Oh yes, I do love my men and their chrome domes! That's why I'm sharing with you some hotties in this posting. No, I haven't made love to all of them, but each and everyone of them are on my "to do" list! LMFAO!

Spirit Day, 2011

October 20, 2011, is the annual celebration of Spirit Day, a day to wear the color purple to denote supporting an end to GLBT bullying. This grass-roots movement was actually begun by Brittany McMillan, a teen herself, as a result of increasing teen suicides among GLBT youth. http://www.glaad.org

GLBT History Month: Male Arts

Sculpture

Portrait

Photography

Dance

 

Literature

Men and masculinity, our celebration of ourselves and what is all the best about our GLBT culture and our gender. Enjoy GLBT History Month and all that is good about our heritage from our individual and shared past and all that is good about our individual and shared present. It is often written that art reflects life. This artistic mini-gallery presentation honors our self-expression and our beauty.  Be proud and stand tall my gay brothers! 

Mixed Race Men: Shaved Nudes

Despite the efforts of many for centuries, it is now beginning to happen with increasing frequency: the intermingling of the different races. Men and women meet and fall in love. Their offspring, the fruits of their love, grow and become the best of both of their parents. The men who are the result of these unions represent the beauty of their combined racial heritage. As the saying goes, they offer the best of both worlds, all-in-one.

I give to you these images of some of these mixed race men here for your viewing pleasure. Some special "eye-candy" just for you in honor of LGBT History Month, 2011.  Sit back and enjoy the delights of these rugged handsome beauties displaying to you the all the proud glory of their masculine nudity. Nude isn't lewd, it's a sight to behold!  Sometimes it can be fun, but lewd? No way!

These men were selected on the basis of their individual physical attributes as representative of the male nude body and form. Other than their mixed-race backgound, the only other criteria for including them here are their shaved/waxed bodies. Personally, I prefer men who are natural, including their body hair, regardless of how profuse or how sparse. Since that preference is often reflected in the pictures that I feature here, I decided to offer to you a variety, something out of the ordinary. And these men are anything but ordinary! Usually, I post here about mixed-race celebrities. Featuring non-celebrities adds some spice to the mix.

Enjoy the men! Enjoy the view! Celebrate and enjoy LGBT History Month, October, 2011!