Honesty

The upcoming summer season gives us multiple choices for social activities outside our usual circle of friends. We interact with strangers, we meet new people, we come in close contact with men that we've never seen before and probably will never see again. This happens to us all. It's all good. Vacation destinations are limited and there are millions of us trying to crowd into a limited amount of space.

So, while we're enjoying our new surroundings, away from our comfort zones, families and friends, what happens when you meet a man who really interests you? As in the physical way, the sexual. You know you may never have the chance to get nasty with him again. It's now or never. Do you make your move or not?

We all have to make our own choices. We look at our options and decide what to do. No one can tell us what to do.

But, I have one word of advice: honesty. Be up front and true about your expectations. If it's to be a one-night fling, be honest. If all you want is a fuck and nothing more, not even a drink, be honest. If you're open to a relationship, be honest. If you want a bed-buddy every night for the length of your vacation, be honest. If you want to take it one night at a time, be honest.

Honesty is best. It eliminates guilt and recrimination. If you're honest and the man you're with wants more, well, the misunderstanding is his problem and not yours. In being truthful, both men can base the decision on intimacy on knowing what's expected and acceptable.

Remember, we were always taught: honesty is the best policy.