The World Through My Eyes

The World Through My Eyes: A collection of essays, reflections and thoughts about men, sex, love, relationships, politics, friendships, nudism, current events, social concerns, humanitarian issues, religion and all those wonderful experiences that constitute life as seen and felt by me: a thirty-something Deaf Gay man of mixed racial heritage (half-black, half-white) living in the Virginia Beach area of the United States. A scrapbook of my life. I've been a confirmed Gay nudist for the past 20 years (since puberty). Sometimes, we just need to step back and chill and try not to be so serious and tense. Life is short, stand up and get into it!

Tuesday, May 29, 2012

Fleet Week and Smooth Sailing

Over the Memorial Day weekend, my boyfriend and I, along with my twin cousins and their partners, spent time at Gateway National Recreation Area in northern New Jersey. This national park property has the only nudist public beach in the northeast Atlantic coast. It is located very close to New York City, in fact, from the "gay area" of the beach, you can actually see the skyline of the city.

Last week was Fleet Week in the Big Apple. An abundance of sailors everywhere, and the gay section of Gunnison Beach was no exception. Nothing wrong with that addition to the scenery. There was this one sailor who parked his towel close to my boyfriend and I and interacted with us one day. Cool. We made a new acquaintance.  Always polite to be friendly and neighborly, especially to a man in the service of his country (and out of uniform). LOL!

We exchanged pleasantries throughout the day, beginning with general subjects like the weather, the NBA playoffs, etc. and slowly getting into specifics. Along the way, we let him know that we live in the Tidewater area of Virginia, very near the Norfolk Naval Base. We also talked about life in the navy now that "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" was history.

As we were at a nudist beach and we were all naked, my lover and I couldn't help but notice that this navy dude was completely hairless. Not a single follicle of hair anywhere on his body. Even his forearms and legs were shaved. Privately, we discussed this but were both too polite to ask him about his smoothness. Living close to a navy base, we'd seen plenty of gay naked navy folks before, but never one who shaved all his body hair.

By the early afternoon, we'd talked for a couple of hours. Feeling comfortable around this guy, my boyfriend asked him if anyone on ship with him ever teased him about shaving his body. His answer surprised us both. No problems with him shaving. He wasn't the only man on board who kept his body smooth, openly doing so in the communal showers. He had a couple of navy buddies who helped him with this task.

Now, that's a naval fact that we never even thought about. We asked, he told! I let him know that I would blog about this. He asked for my blog address and promised to check it out.


Sunday, May 20, 2012

Spring Cock Garden

Imagine waking up one beautiful May morning, looking outside your bedroom window and feasting your eyes on the splendor of spring: a garden of cocks! That vision alone is worth the entire month of April showers! What a great way to start a new day! Who could ask for anything more?

Unless, of course, you crawl back into bed and have a live cock there waiting just for you. Then, imagine worshipping and servicing that cock sharing your bed, giving it the justice that it deserves. All the while, looking out your window and viewing the wonders of nature. That's what I call a dream come true! A morning in paradise! 

The joys of springtime with a taste of heaven on earth! Good morning, Spring!

Monday, May 14, 2012

Mixed Race Celebrity Mondays: Tyson Beckford

It's been awhile since I presented a Mixed Race celebrity on nekkidfurryboi. If you're like me, model Tyson Beckford, despite his 40+ years, is a rare find, anytime. He's eye-candy for any age and is this spring's featured mixed race specialty. In the picture above, some debate whether or not it's photo shopped. Regardless, there are enough actual photos of Mr. Beckford without his clothes to prove that he's no stranger to nudity.

Tyson Craig Beckford was born on December 19, 1970, in The Bronx, New York City. His father is Jamaican of African-Panamanian heritage and his mother is half Jamaican, half Chinese. He was raised in Rochester, New York state. He attended Pittsford Mendon High School and played on both the football and track teams. Tyson is the first cousin of Los Angeles Lakers' pro basketball forward, Ron Artest.

Tyson Beckford is 6' tall and measures 40'-30'-35". He has black hairs and brown eyes. His suit size is 44L and his shoe size is 12. Of course, we all know about a man and his feet!  

In 1992, Tyson Beckford was recruited to the hip-hop magazine, The Source, as a model. Talent scout Jeff Jones is credited with "discovering" him while he was auditioning in New York City. In 1993, he signed a contract with fashion designer Ralph Lauren as the front (lead) model for the company's Polo line of male sportswear. In 1995, he was named "Man of the Year" by the cable television music channel, VH1. That same year, he was named by People magazine as one of their "50 Most Beautiful People in the World." All throughout the 1990s, Tyson was internationally recognized as a supermodel and commanded top dollar salaries. He was widely regarded as "one of the beautiful people" and was often photographed with the rich and famous, further enhancing his career. 
He continues to be involved in modeling, though not always walking the runway. He has appeared as both a host and judge on several reality-style modeling shows on television. He also does music videos for top musicians and vocalists.

Tuesday, May 8, 2012


The upcoming summer season gives us multiple choices for social activities outside our usual circle of friends. We interact with strangers, we meet new people, we come in close contact with men that we've never seen before and probably will never see again. This happens to us all. It's all good. Vacation destinations are limited and there are millions of us trying to crowd into a limited amount of space.

So, while we're enjoying our new surroundings, away from our comfort zones, families and friends, what happens when you meet a man who really interests you? As in the physical way, the sexual. You know you may never have the chance to get nasty with him again. It's now or never. Do you make your move or not?

We all have to make our own choices. We look at our options and decide what to do. No one can tell us what to do.

But, I have one word of advice: honesty. Be up front and true about your expectations. If it's to be a one-night fling, be honest. If all you want is a fuck and nothing more, not even a drink, be honest. If you're open to a relationship, be honest. If you want a bed-buddy every night for the length of your vacation, be honest. If you want to take it one night at a time, be honest.

Honesty is best. It eliminates guilt and recrimination. If you're honest and the man you're with wants more, well, the misunderstanding is his problem and not yours. In being truthful, both men can base the decision on intimacy on knowing what's expected and acceptable.

Remember, we were always taught: honesty is the best policy.

Saturday, May 5, 2012

Cinco de Mayo Surprise!

It looks as though these two are about to enjoy the holiday! Hopefully, we can all do the same!


Best wishes, be safe and have fun!

Tuesday, May 1, 2012

Naughty But Nice!

April Showers Bring May Flowers!

I don't think I have to add anything more. The picture alone speaks for itself!
I do want to ask the question: Which is better? April or May?