The World Through My Eyes
The World Through My Eyes: A collection of essays, reflections and thoughts about men, sex, love, relationships, politics, friendships, nudism, current events, social concerns, humanitarian issues, religion and all those wonderful experiences that constitute life as seen and felt by me: a thirty-something Deaf Gay man of mixed racial heritage (half-black, half-white) living in the Virginia Beach area of the United States. A scrapbook of my life. I've been a confirmed Gay nudist for the past 20 years (since puberty). Sometimes, we just need to step back and chill and try not to be so serious and tense. Life is short, stand up and get into it! firstname.lastname@example.org.
Thursday, January 13, 2011
Size: The Poll Results Are In
The first poll here has closed and the results are visible for all. Just look at the top right side of your screen for the decision. Not surprisingly, the size of the penis of our partner isn't an issue for the majority of us. We're content to work with what we've got and live with it. We accept the fact that not all of us are exceptionally endowed, we cope with reality and move on with our lives. Not all of us are going to capture the biggest and the best. The truth is, as many of us know from experience, the biggest is not a key to satisfaction. Often, the largest is also a very BIG disappointment. Nothing is as frustrating as being sexually involved with a man who selfishly and stupidly thinks his magnitude alone invokes sensual gratitude. His size may get him envious second-looks in the locker room but produce many less-than-satisfactory scores in the bedroom.
At the same time, we need to remember not to discriminate against anyone based solely on their respective penis size. Simply because it's big doesn't automatically mean that it's not good. A large penis may not always be what we think; however, the size doesn't necessarily indicate an unsatisfactory encounter. On the opposite end of the spectrum, we need to remember that there are some big boys who are able to deliver as visibly promised. The phrase "looks can sometimes be deceiving" works both ways and we all need to keep this in mind. Appearances aren't everything. There is no definitive rule as to penile size, erect or flaccid, in every situation. All of us are individuals with our own preferences.
As long as both partners are happy with their relationship, who are we to judge? As long as it is doable for them, why bother? The majority of us agree that cock-size is of minor importance. We have our opinions and our thoughts as to what is best for us. Others are free to differ and enjoy their lives.
In the final tabulation, it isn't the physical image of size that counts. It's how the tool performs that matters most!