The World Through My Eyes

The World Through My Eyes: A collection of essays, reflections and thoughts about men, sex, love, relationships, politics, friendships, nudism, current events, social concerns, humanitarian issues, religion and all those wonderful experiences that constitute life as seen and felt by me: a thirty-something Deaf Gay man of mixed racial heritage (half-black, half-white) living in the Virginia Beach area of the United States. A scrapbook of my life. I've been a confirmed Gay nudist for the past 20 years (since puberty). Sometimes, we just need to step back and chill and try not to be so serious and tense. Life is short, stand up and get into it!

Thursday, January 13, 2011

Size: The Poll Results Are In

The first poll here has closed and the results are visible for all. Just look at the top right side of your screen for the decision. Not surprisingly, the size of the penis of our partner isn't an issue for the majority of us. We're content to work with what we've got and live with it. We accept the fact that not all of us are exceptionally endowed, we cope with reality and move on with our lives. Not all of us are going to capture the biggest and the best. The truth is, as many of us know from experience, the biggest is not a key to satisfaction. Often, the largest is also a very BIG disappointment. Nothing is as frustrating as being sexually involved with a man who selfishly and stupidly thinks his magnitude alone invokes sensual gratitude. His size may get him envious second-looks in the locker room but produce many less-than-satisfactory scores in the bedroom.

At the same time, we need to remember not to discriminate against anyone based solely on their respective penis size. Simply because it's big doesn't automatically mean that it's not good. A large penis may not always be what we think; however, the size doesn't necessarily indicate an unsatisfactory encounter. On the opposite end of the spectrum, we need to remember that there are some big boys who are able to deliver as visibly promised. The phrase "looks can sometimes be deceiving" works both ways and we all need to keep this in mind. Appearances aren't everything. There is no definitive rule as to penile size, erect or flaccid, in every situation. All of us are individuals with our own preferences.

As long as both partners are happy with their relationship, who are we to judge? As long as it is doable for them, why bother? The majority of us agree that cock-size is of minor importance. We have our opinions and our thoughts as to what is best for us. Others are free to differ and enjoy their lives.

In the final tabulation, it isn't the physical image of size that counts. It's how the tool performs that matters most!    


♫Hershey's Kiss♫ said...

I am happy with what I have. It may not be 12 inches, but I've never had an complaints. My boyfriend's penis is adequate enough for me. I never judge someone by their penis size, just don't lie about it.

Immanuel said...

I agree with Hershey's Kiss 100 percent! But let me add a bit more.

Look, I'm pretty well endowed and it's nice having a big dick that I can use well. But that being said you know the reason why some guys hit you up is merely based on dick size.

There is nothing more insulting than to go online and have a person hit you up with "What's up Big Dick Stud, come over and fuck me." You hear this a lot, especially from size queen white guys.

It can make you feel like a piece of meat.

A good number of tops like to fuck big dicked bottoms as well. But to me sexiness is far more than dick size.

And Hershey's Kiss is right! Don't lie about your dick size. As soon as you pull down your pants the truth is out. And if you do have a smaller dick work on your sexual techniques. Hell mine is big and I constantly try to bring more passion to the table outside of just fucking because hell, anybody can fuck, even a dog on the street.

thegayte-keeper said...

I am VERY happy with my partner!

Anonymous said...

I never had any problems with my penis until I learned I was circumised...