That's true and I'm not ashamed to admit to the fact! Unlike other gay men, whether in or out of relationships, I enjoy watching hot, hardcore porn DVDs, either alone when I feel that special urge that we all know, or with my boyfriend as a prelude to our lovemaking, I'm a fan! I even, at times, will buy a pornographic magazine if any of the models pictured catch the attention of my eye or my dick. I don't hide the fact like some do; I call it for what it really is: porn. I refuse to try to hide it as "adult entertainment" or "mature content" amusement. Yes, it is amusement but at the same time, it's porn, period. No more, no less.
I admit that I don't really care for what's named softcore porn. Limp dicks and dry humping just don't work for me. I want to see the real action, the horse-hung cock pounding a tight, generous and willing ass. I want to see a hungry mouth take the dick all the way and enjoying it while his pleasure hole is being rimmed or finger-fucked. I like it rough and I want to see it rough, although consensual and respectful. I buy the porn for the action, the sweating and writhing bodies all the while showing two or more men wrestling and pleasing one another as only men can: sucking, fucking, rimming and giving their all!
As a gay man, I know that no one can satisfy my sexual needs like another man. A man who knows what it feels like understands exactly what makes me feel good. He knows what to do to ignite my passion just as I know how to ignite his. For that reason, no heterosexual porn or bisexual porn does it for me. I want my porn to show men servicing other men, either one-on-one or as a group. That's just me being honest and being me. Fortunately, my boyfriend is the same, so there's no problem in that department. When we go porn-shopping together, we know what we like. And yes, we use porn to enhance and spice our sex life. Why not? We all enjoy a few nice surprises and it keeps the intimacy alive and interesting.
I've never felt any embarrassment or shame about liking porn. It's no big deal to me. I know of many gay men who think differently: that's fine, if, and only if, that's the truth. However, for most of them, I bet it's the opposite. I have numerous friends who joke and laugh about others buying porn, yet that hidden closet inside their apartments and homes has porn collections that dwarf mine. Why waste all the time and effort putting down others when you do the same? Porn is healthy and natural; there's nothing wrong with it. There's no disgrace in owning it, so why try to hide? As long as it's legal, responsible and respectful, own it, view it and masturbate or fuck while it's on the screen!